You’ve heard it said, “Old habits die hard”…and while that’s true, it’s not always a bad thing. It means that habits have a lasting effect, both positive and negative ones. While this makes it difficult to break bad habits, it also tells us the importance of establishing healthy ones. Creating Habits by Setting Goals How do we establish daily habits that will set the tone for our future? First, we have to picture what we want our lives to look... Read more
I would never…” flies out of our mouths so often as human beings, especially when it’s about a situation we’ve never been in. For instance, before I became a parent, I used to think “ My kids would never…” They’d never what, Tori? “Have a meltdown in public?” “Try to escape a store in the split second you look away?” “Sneak candy and try to eat it without you seeing?” If you’ve thought similar things, spoiler alert: yes, your kids... Read more
You’ve heard it said, “Boys will be boys!” While this saying can sometimes be used as an excuse for poor behavior, more often than not, it’s an innocent saying, referring to the rough, wild, energetic nature of boys. There’s something so unique and special about the way God designed young boys. We have to be careful not to squash those God-given characteristics while directing them on the path to be kind, responsible, respectful men someday. Raising an “Oh Boy!” After... Read more
Do you remember the first time you held your baby? That feeling is unlike anything else in the world as you look at their tiny perfect little features and are overwhelmed with awe at how amazing they are. What would you give to feel that way again? As moms, our kids mean the world to us! At the end of the day, we wouldn’t trade being a mom for anything. However, if you were to ask at various moments throughout... Read more
Have you ever been in a situation where you know people are talking about you or making assumptions about you that aren’t true? No one wants to be painted in a bad light. So, it can be tempting to correct people and make sure your side of the story is told at all costs. However, in many situations, this can just make things worse and bring confrontation and confusion, instead of peace. What does it look like to let a... Read more
As a culture, we’re starting to pay more attention to our mental health and value it as an important aspect to our overall well-being. I believe this is a good thing! Though, it can be taken too far at times. I’m not here to tell you to “follow your heart” or “manifest the life of your dreams” (sorry if that’s what you were hoping for!) So, what do I mean by “mindfulness” and what does it look like as a... Read more
If you’ve been following along with my series on Community, you might be thinking, “Okay, now I’ve heard you talk about this community thing and what the Bible says about it, but how do I know how to find a truly Christ-centered community?” Good news! The Bible tells us what it should look like when Christians gather together. This means that when you become part of a Christian Community, you know the important things to look for. Christian Community can... Read more
A couple of weeks ago, I talked about my experience with finding a Christian Community and what it means to be part of one. But, it should be noted: don’t listen to anything I say, unless there’s Biblical truth to back it up 😉 In this follow-up post, we’ll look at some specific verses in the Bible that talk about the importance of gathering with other Christians and how it can be beneficial to our faith. What Does the Bible... Read more
Sometimes we might picture the story of Jesus’ birth as a simple event…a “silent night”, with the “lowly” shepherds and the “humble” manger. It can be easy to assume, since God ordained it, that everything just fell into place and everyone went along with their role without complaint. Yet, here’s the truth I sometimes forget about it all: Jesus was the only perfect person in this story. Simple Christmas, Simply Human Christmas has always been my favorite time of the... Read more
Independence is glorified in society. Being able to stand on your own two feet is a signal of strength. No wonder our instinct is to say, “no, it’s okay. I got this”. As Christians, can trying to go through life alone be damaging to our faith? What does it look like to be part of a Christ-centered community? Growing Up in Community I was fortunate enough to grow up in a Christian home, with a family who valued the importance... Read more
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