314 – Unmasking Patriarchy: Diagnosing Narcissism & Abuse

Unmasking Patriarchy: Diagnosing Narcissism & Abuse

David Hayward (from his Website)

I am a pastor turned artist painting, drawing, and thinking about what it takes to be free to be you. If you’re interested in deconstruction, spiritual journeying, freedom of thought, or looking for your authentic self, you’re welcome to join me while I search too.

In case you’re wondering, I’m not actually naked. The idea behind my name, NakedPastor, is to seek to tell the naked truth – no matter how vulnerable it feels. I used to be a pastor but I’ve been creating art and working towards freedom with this community for over 10 years now.

The best way to get to know me is through my art. Here’s a quick rundown.

Cartoons

My cartoons are what I’m most known for. I love that they’re powerful and effective. They speak louder than words and go straight to the heart. There’s no time to scramble for an argument. It’s too late. You can’t unsee them.

Through cartoons, I challenge problematic norms in religious spaces and life in general. They’re more than just cartoons. They inspire, provoke, and start difficult conversations. They don’t just sit on your walls; one frame at a time, they’re making a difference. Here’s a video explaining w

hy I love drawing cartoons. https://youtu.be/JXwXsSpJSoI

David, Laura, and I discussed some of the things that are troubling us in the Desert. These included Patriarchy, Narcissism, Abuse, and platforming leaders that may or may not have been properly vetted. How can we do better than we did in our old systems and protect abuse survivors?

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https://thedesertsanctuary.org/leaning-forward-2023/

Karl Forehand is a former pastor, podcaster, and award-winning author. His books include Out into the Desert, Leaning Forward,  Apparent Faith: What Fatherhood Taught Me About the Father’s Heart, The Tea Shop and Being: A Journey Toward Presence and Authenticity.  He is the creator of The Desert Sanctuary podcast and community.  He is married to his wife Laura of 35 years and has one dog named Winston.  His three children are grown and are beginning to multiply! You can read more about the author here.