Part 3 of Insights on Turning the Other Cheek, Enemy Love, and Judging Others
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Lastly, let’s consider another easily misinterpreted teaching from the Jesus of the Synoptics: Jesus’ instruction on judging.
Given the context in Luke 6, I argue that not judging doesn’t mean turning a blind eye to the harmful actions of oppressors or abusers. It doesn’t mean that we fail to rightly assess the actions of those people or systems who are doing us harm. It also doesn’t forbid critically discerning and separating what is life-giving from what is death-dealing. Judgment in this context means dividing the people who are doing harmful things and those who are not, while simultaneously not dehumanizing those who inflict harm so as to objectify them as monsters rather than as humans who have lost their way. Even our enemies still have worth and are redeemable. It doesn’t mean we allow them to continue harming while we seek to redeem them. We can stop the harm our enemies are doing and stop them in such a way that calls them to face their actions. We can hope not only to liberate ourselves but also to change them, reclaiming the humanity of all who are involved.
When Jesus in Luke says, “Do not judge . . . do not condemn . . . forgive,” he is not telling us to passively accept what is being done to us, but on the contrary, he is telling us not to go so far that we lose our grip on our enemies’ humanity while we seek to stand up for our own. In our striving for justice, we don’t get to decide who belongs to humanity and who does not. This is the only way to accept Jesus’ teachings on enemy love and not condemn what I have found to be life-giving.
Insights on Not Judging
While we seek to establish justice on the earth, we do not jettison another human being’s worth or value regardless of who they are. And it doesn’t mean we have to actually feel something positive toward our enemies. It means that we still hold space, as Deming said about the two hands of nonviolence, for our enemies to make different choices when they choose. What good is replacing one hierarchy or hegemony with another? Our goal is a shared table. Whether our present enemies choose to change so they may sit at that table is completely up to them. But a place at the table is set for them nonetheless if they choose to change.
Again, in seeking to stand up for our own humanity, we do not diminish another person’s humanity. As Rev. Dr. Kelly Brown Douglas states, “God’s power, unlike human power, is not a ‘master race’ kind of power. That is, it is not a power that diminishes the life of another so that others might live. God’s power respects the integrity of all human bodies and the sanctity of all life. This is a resurrecting power” (Stand Your Ground: Black Bodies and the Justice of God, pp. 182-183). As Audre Lorde wrote, “For the master’s tools will never dismantle the master’s house. They may allow us temporarily to beat him at his own game, but they will never enable us to bring about genuine change” (“The Master’s Tools Will Never Dismantle the Master’s House,” Sister Outsider, p. 112).
This week, as we seek to fight the harm those presently in power are doing, and in the context of our reading this week from the gospel of Luke, let us also remember the wise words of Rev. Dr. Jacqui Lewis in her book Fierce Love:
“The world doesn’t get great unless we all get better. If there is such a thing as salvation, then we are not saved until everyone is saved; our dignity and liberation are bound together.” (Fierce Love: A Bold Path to Ferocious Courage and Rule-Breaking Kindness That Can Heal the World, p. 14).
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