I’ve been working with a nifty little Zen Buddhist practice called “Don’t-Know-Mind.” The idea behind it is this: We constantly, and without even realizing it, invent stories in our minds to explain things we experience. So, for example, in my rear view mirror I see some guy in a BMW who is zipping through traffic; tailgating, changing lanes, trying to get ahead, fast approaching. I think to myself “What a jerk,” assured that the driver is some rich yuppie who... Read more